Translations from Politeness to English

A bit of politeness is good, but too much hides the truth...unless you count some pairs prying eyes out there. Those eyes belong to people who can and will logically analyze what others say in what they suspect to be Politeness and translate it to English.

Here's a list of what I have discovered with critical investigating:

Edition 1: Old report cards#1:
Polite statement: Jess is encouraged to work on empathy by taking time to think about how people have different strengths and weaknesses before she makes observational comments.
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