To Be a Man is a track off of Boston’s Third Stage album, released in 1986. The singer reflects on what masculinity truly means, questioning traditional masculinity’s morals and values along the way. He concludes that being a man encompasses softness, heart, caring for others, and a strong will.
[Verse 1]
What does it take to be a man?
What does it take to see
It's all heart and soul
A gentle hand?
So easy to want and so hard to give
How can you be a man
Until you see beyond the life you live?
Oh, what does it take to be a man?
[Verse 2]
We can be blind, but a man tries to see
It takes tenderness
For a man to be what he can be
And what does it mean
If you're weak or strong?
A gentle feeling
Can make it right or make it wrong
What does it take to be a man?
[Bridge]
The will to give and not receive
The strength to say what you believe
The heart to feel what others feel inside
To see what they can see
[Guitar Solo]
[Outro]
A man is something that's real
It's not what you are
It's what you can feel
It can't be too late
To look through the hate and see
I know that's what a man can be
To Be a Man was written by Tom Scholz.
To Be a Man was produced by Tom Scholz.
Boston released To Be a Man on Tue Sep 23 1986.