‘Them’ is a song about loving and respecting trans and nonbinary folk. The song title is a reference to the pronouns they/them, which are gender neutral pronouns used to refer to a nonbinary person.
[Verse 1]
Hand on your chest
Teach me how to respect your figure
Put me to the test
Stop me if I get close to your triggers
First touch, woke up
First love in the middle
Yeah, I like it rough
But I also like it gentle
Everybody’s got an opinion
On the way that we should be livin'
To the naked eye we’re the same thing
But we’re so different
[Chorus]
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
Body was a woman
Now a real gentleman
Don’t need a label
When I’m lying on their skin
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
[Verse 2]
Love the scars on your chest
As our bodies undress
You’ll be the 9 to your 6
Look at me when you’re coming
Okay, I must confess
That I’m kind of obsessed
With you under the sheets
Give me both sides of what I need
[Chorus]
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
Body was a woman
Now a real gentleman
Don’t need a label
When I’m lying on their skin
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
Body was a woman
Now a real gentleman
Don’t need a label
When I’m lying on their skin
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
[Bridge]
Love is love no matter what
Just teach before you touch
Speak up for what you want
(I like kissing you)
(Are you okay if I touch you like that?)
You’re not the typical guy
But you’re just my type
Outside and on the inside
[Chorus]
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
Body was a woman
Now a real gentleman
Don’t need a label
When I’m lying on their skin
Ask me who I’m with
Ask me who I'm with
Ask me who I'm with
I’m with them
Body was a woman
Now a real gentleman
Don’t need a label
When I’m lying on their skin
Ask me who I’m with
I’m with them
Them was written by Aaron Berton & Matt Crawford & Katie Hargrove & FLAVIA.
Them was produced by FLAVIA & Aaron Berton & Matt Crawford.