Inspired by frontman Seth Findley’s divorce in 2020, “The Ropes” is a brutally honest ballad that follows his emotions as he is confronted with the reality that his marriage is falling apart. The vulnerability of the subject matter is supported by minimal instrumentation, depending largely on keys,...
[Verse 1]
Never thought I'd miss the mark, I lost my way
Comfortable with growing old, wore out my stay
Writing's on the wall tonight
Shadow proves the fading light
Invincible, but miserable; is this just fate?
[Chorus]
My life is on the ropes
I'm talking to myself, saying, "You're not alone
Not alone"
It's something no one knows
Save me from myself, I think I'll go alone
Go alone
[Verse 2]
Hesitate and complicate, I'm in my head
Locking up my house of love, I'll suffocate
Give me something to define
Truth exists to prove I'm right
So listen up, is that enough? My head's on straight
[Chorus]
My life is on the ropes
I'm talking to myself, saying, "You're not alone
Not alone"
It's something no one knows
Save me from myself, I think I'll go alone
Go alone
[Verse 3]
What's a name but everything? A calling card
Something I'll once in a while believe's a scar
It's not that I'm alone in life
Or hate what I've been given
I write it down, I spell it out, "I've come this far"
[Chorus]
My life is on the ropes
I'm talking to myself, saying, "You're not alone
Not alone"
It's something no one knows
Save me from myself, I think I'll go alone
Go alone
My life is on the ropes
I'm talking to myself, saying, "You're not alone
Not alone"
It's something no one knows
Save me from myself, I think I'll go alone
Go alone
The Ropes was written by Zach Solomon & Seth Findley & Brooks Whitehurst.
The Ropes was produced by Honest Men.
Honest Men released The Ropes on Fri Oct 29 2021.
I wrote ‘The Ropes’ in the fall of 2020 during the weeks leading up to filing for a divorce. It’s bizarre typing this out, having over a year of distance since that event, being in a completely different stage of life, and never having publicly shared what happened. While its been alluded to on soci...