On “ghostin,” Ariana talks about being with someone while loving a different person. The title is a term used to describe a person in a relationship who suddenly, and without explanation, ceases all communication. It speaks to the grief and regret within that heartbreak.
[Verse 1]
I know you hear me when I cry
I try to hold it in at night
While you're sleeping next to me
But it's your arms that I need this time (This time)
Look at the cards that we've been dealt
If you were anybody else
Probably wouldn't last a day
Every tear's a rain parade from hell (From hell)
[Pre-Chorus]
Baby, you do it so well
You've been so understanding, you've been so good
And I'm puttin' you through more than one ever should
And I'm hating myself 'cause you don't want to
Admit that it hurts you
[Chorus]
I know that it breaks your heart when I cry again
Over him, mmh
I know that it breaks your heart when I cry again
'Stead of ghostin' him
[Post-Chorus]
We'll get through this, we'll get past this, I'm a girl with
A whole lot of baggage
But I love you, we'll get past this, I'm a girl with
A whole lot of baggage, oh yeah
[Verse 2]
Though I wish he were here instead
Don't want that living in your head
He just comes to visit me
When I'm dreaming every now and then (And then)
And after all that we been through (And after all that we been through)
There's so much to look forward to
What was done and what was said
Leave it all here in this bed with you (With you)
[Pre-Chorus]
Baby, you do it so well
You've been so understanding, you've been so good
And I'm puttin' you through more than one ever should
And I'm hating myself 'cause you don't want to
Admit that it hurts you, baby
[Chorus]
I know that it breaks your heart when I cry again
Over him, mmh
I know that it breaks your heart when I cry again
'Stead of ghostin' him
[Post-Chorus]
We'll get through this, we'll get past this, I'm a girl with (Girl with)
A whole lot of baggage
But I love you (Love you), we'll get past this (Past this)
I'm a girl with a whole lot of baggage, yeah yeah
ghostin was written by Tayla Parx & Savan Kotecha & ILYA & Max Martin & Victoria Monét & Ariana Grande.
ghostin was produced by Victoria Monét & ILYA & Max Martin.
Ariana Grande released ghostin on Fri Feb 08 2019.
In a now deleted tweet, Ariana explained the meaning of the song:
feeling badly for the person you’re with bc you love somebody else. feeling badly bc he can tell he can’t compare….and how i should be ghosting him.
Although there is no clear statement about how this song relates to the late Mac Miller, many fans and media outlets have speculated that it is intended to portray Ariana’s longing for her deceased ex because they speculate it samples his 2018 track “2009.”
Many fans think, that ‘ghostin’ is about the time, when her ex-boyfriend Mac Miller died from an overdose last September, and she was mourning him, and the song is about apologising to Pete Davidson, her fiancé at the current time for having to see her in such a state.
‘I know that it breaks your he...
In an interview with Rolling Stone, one of the track’s writers, Savan Kotecha, said:
[When we were writing] “Ghostin,” we were in New York with her. The song speaks for itself in terms of what it’s about. We were with her for a week in New York witnessing that, witnessing her feelings on that. We a...
During the week ending February 23, 2019, “ghostin” debuted and peaked at #25 on the Hot 100.
Ariana said that the second verse was the hardest verse to leave in this song. She mentioned it in her Zach Sang interview where she talked about this.
Rolling Stone ranked the track as Ariana’s #3 best song, saying:
On the surface, one might assume ‘Ghostin’’ has something to do with dating culture. But despite the trendy term, the vulnerable song is actually a devastating ballad about what haunts her: death, love, loss, and the complexities of m...