This song highlights Laura’s growing focus on her gender dysphoria before fully committing to her transition soon after this album release. She shares feelings of searching for what it would mean to be a woman, and the defeat she faces when she feels overwhelmed by the difficulty of coming out and t...
[Verse 1]
I've walked down high streets, looking through windows
I've been lost in crowds of strangers
Searched record shops and cosmetic aisles
Phonebooks, want ads, bus stops, and libraries
[Verse 2]
Newspaper headlines, mannequin faces
Television stations, billboard advertisements
Your voice echoes in the back of my mind
I see your face when I close my eyes
[Chorus]
Do you share the same sense of defeat?
Have you realized all the things you'll never be?
Ideals turn to resentment, open minds close up with cynicism
I've got no judgment for you, come on and ache with me
[Verse 3]
Through barrooms, cafés, jail cells and court rooms
Theaters, restaurants, graveyards and churches
I've spent every dollar that I've ever earned
I'll bleed my heart out, I'll give every word
[Verse 4]
I've asked preachers, doctors and lawyers
Socialites, pariahs, mothers and fathers
You may not find all that you're after
In the end, I hope it doesn't matter
[Chorus]
Do you share the same sense of defeat?
Have you realized all the things you'll never be?
Ideals turn to resentment, open minds close up with cynicism
I've got no judgment for you, come on and ache with me
[Outro]
Do you share the same sense of defeat?
Have you realized all the things you'll never be?
I've got no judgement for you, come on and ache with me
Ache with Me was written by Laura Jane Grace.
Ache with Me was produced by Alan Moulder & Butch Vig.
Against Me! released Ache with Me on Tue Jun 08 2010.